Victor D'Altorio
Acting and communications coach

Learning to Act: acting skills are life skills

February 7, 2009 22:24 by Victor

Don't work on your "acting skills" if you want to expand your talent.  Work on life skills, namely listening and responding in a more authentic, less polite, less accommodating way.  It’s pretty tough to be authentic as an actor without being authentic as a person.  Our cultural standards for authenticity (with Politics on the far right end of the scale and Art on the far left end) have sunk so low, that we may have lost sight of them all together.   

There is no Standard of Truth in politics of course, which is why it’s called “politics” in the first place. Abraham Lincoln is probably still the touchstone against which all others are measured, but he may actually have been a lying bastard who’s been seen through rosier and rosier colored glasses as the years have gone by.  (Don’t forget he only freed the slaves in the Confederacy at first.) Look at the “legacy” of Ronald Reagan.  That clueless asshole was a haircut in a suit, and he’s now being “remembered” as one of our greatest presidents. 

On the Art, Truth, and Beauty end of the scale there are plenty of artists who have achieved near perfection in their work, and who serve as touchstones for us all.  For actors, look at Sean Penn’s performance in “Milk”.  Watch Faye Dunaway in “Chinatown”, or Geraldine Page in “A Trip to Bountiful”. Look at Jackson Pollack’s “Number 8” if you want a touchstone for passion and freedom of expression with paint.   

Now if what you really want is to be a celebrity (who maybe works as an actor), that's fine, go for it, but don't pretend to yourself that you’re striving for authenticity by substituting networking and ass kissing for an education in the greater understanding of the human mind, heart, and soul. That particular kind of self-deception is everywhere, and it kills your ability to discover honest behavior whether you notice you’re doing it or not.  You’re screwed either way. If you know you’re doing it you’re neglecting your own care and feeding, and if you dont--if kissing the ass has become second nature--you’re sticking pins in the voodoo doll of your own authentic self without knowing it. 

To be authentic as an artist or a person, one must accept fear, discomfort, confusion, loss of control etc.  All the things we instinctively avoid or try to minimize in our daily lives as “regular” folk.  Artists are not regular folk.  Actors certainly are not, not the good ones, not the ones who can make us see and understand something about ourselves that was previously hidden from view.  The very nature of art and authenticity are inextricably linked, and when they’re forced apart, we get commerce which poses as art, or at best, commerce as entertainment.   

Reread “The Emporer’s New Clothes” if you really want to set yourself a useful course of study as an actor.  It’s a great touchstone for how and where to begin the journey.  


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February 11. 2009 16:30

Russell Brown

So true! Good acting is good life skills! Correct me if I'm wrong, but I think if your not an interesting person in real life (i.e. you're always stopping yourself from feeling what you really feel, however outrageous it may be, and you're not doing what you really want to in this moment), you certainly won't be on stage. There's a reason why we love to hear backstage stories about George Balanchine, Mae West, Elaine Stritch, Al Pacino, it's because they're fascinating people who learned how to be themselves specifically to each moment of their life!

Russell Brown

February 12. 2009 20:43

Kerin Hagan

I have to admit, all those acting classes helped me in my "real" life. I always say the best therapy I ever had was 4 years of 3x weekly Alanon meetings along with Meisner method acting classes including repetition. Those things together helped me become my authentic self!

Kerin Hagan

June 19. 2009 08:04

Acting Summer School

I have read "The Emporer’s New Clothes" and i have found it is an amazing.

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June 23. 2009 17:42

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